How to Get His Attention Greif, Jasbina Ahluwalia, founder and CEO of successful matchmaking service Intersections Match, and psychotherapist Mary Waldon all agree that the number one tip for trying to date a shy guy is to take initiative!
Whether this means initiating eye contact, a conversation or a date, all of our experts stressed the importance of taking that first step.
Girls get crushes on cute shy guys because they’re so mysterious and different from all the other guys who try to behave like bold smooth talkers.
But as soon as a great guy starts to pursue a girl, she forgets about the shy guy because, well, he’s just not doing anything to reciprocate.
If you’re a shy guy, learn to use the opportunity of first impressions. And even the smallest gesture by a shy guy can make a huge difference to a girl, especially if she likes him already. They’re good listeners and they’re very considerate.
[Read: What do girls look for in a guy to fall for him? But you obviously don’t want to be her friend, so this isn’t a good sign. Get drunk with a girl and let her have her way with you and she’ll definitely like it.
It is 1973 and somewhere in Vietnam, Creedence Clearwater Revival’s “Fortunate Son” is blaring out of cracked speakers.
You won’t find a shred of superficial writing here. It took me years to learn that and years not to forget it.And it wouldn't be a stretch to say that most people's lives revolve around their primary love relationship. However, women will tell you that there's nothing more attractive in a man than self-acceptance (which is the same as complacency). So towards the end of med school, I started to read some pertinent books and hanging out with guys savvier than me in this dating realm. They definitely don’t like a guy who’s shy in the first conversation and shy after that too. They’re more sensitive and caring and girls like their company.Now almost all the time, even the shyest of guys open up after a couple of conversations, so you don’t have to worry there. But to fall for a guy, there are three things that a girl needs in a boyfriend material.