Because I'm an inquisitive person, I used it as an opportunity to call him out via text for ghosting me but still lurking on my social media.
Reconnecting after dates Reconnection rituals can be very helpful for couples especially in the beginning stages of opening the marriage or relationship.
Apparently, you also need a friend to watch your back. If you are missing any of these things, you are going to have a shitty cake. Be a good boyfriend, and never forget about the cake.
How can I contact him "casually" without making it seem as though I am "desperate"? (Please, no comment regarding the fact that I will look "desperate" anyway, it's really not the point of this thread). Good thing you are not a complete stranger to him so that might make it easier for you to simply send a friendly message "Hey! This is my choice and I would kindly ask you to respect that.
I was once ghosted by a guy after we dated for a little over a month.
Ever meet a girl, and get her contact information, and then start chatting with her via phone or text message, and then go to set up a date with her – maybe to get some food, maybe a drink, maybe to just chill and hang out and watch a movie at your place – only to have her offer a counterproposal that suited you far less?
Perhaps she suggested going shopping, or that you join her out with a group of her friends, or come to some party she was attending.
After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website.